Why Leaving an Inheritance Without Protection Can Do More Harm Than Good
- Mattiace Tetro LLC
- Jan 3
- 4 min read
As a parent, you likely hope to leave your children an inheritance. In fact, that goal may be one of the driving forces behind your life’s work. You work hard, save carefully, and make sacrifices so your children can have opportunities you may not have had.

Yet without proper planning, the wealth you pass on is at serious risk of being accidentally lost or squandered. In some situations, an inheritance can even cause more harm than good.
Many families believe that creating a will or a revocable living trust is enough. While those documents are important, they often fall short when it comes to protecting your children from real world risks.
The Hidden Risk of Common Distribution Plans
Most traditional estate plans distribute assets to children outright at specific ages or stages. A common structure looks something like this: one third at age twenty five, half the remaining balance at thirty, and the rest at thirty five.
If you already have estate planning documents, it is worth reviewing how assets are distributed to your children. If your plan follows this model, you may not have been told about another option that provides access, control, and long term protection for whatever assets your children inherit from you.
Once assets are distributed outright, all legal protection disappears. From that moment forward, the inheritance becomes vulnerable to creditors, lawsuits, divorce, medical emergencies, and poor financial decisions.
A More Protective Option for Your Children
In our planning process, we always offer parents the option of creating a Lifetime Asset Protection Trust for their children’s inheritance. This type of trust is designed to safeguard inherited assets from common life events such as divorce, serious illness, lawsuits, and even bankruptcy. But protection is only part of the benefit.
A properly designed Lifetime Asset Protection Trust offers the best of both worlds. Your children can use and control the inheritance while the assets remain protected. In addition, the trust can be structured to encourage responsible decision making, long term thinking, and even growth of the inherited wealth.
Not Just for the Ultra Wealthy
Lifetime Asset Protection Trusts are not reserved for the extremely wealthy. In fact, they are often even more valuable when the inheritance is modest.
Without guidance and structure, many people burn through an inheritance quickly. Studies show that the average inheritance is gone within five years, often due to debt or poor investment choices. Other research indicates that one third of people who receive an inheritance end up with negative savings within just two years.
When the inheritance is smaller, it is even more vulnerable. A single medical emergency, lawsuit, or divorce can wipe it out entirely.
No matter the size of your estate, if you plan to leave anything to your children, thoughtful planning can dramatically increase the likelihood that your gift supports their lives instead of creating stress, loss, or regret.
Why Not All Trusts Offer the Same Protection
Most lawyers correctly advise families to use a revocable living trust. However, many still structure those trusts to distribute assets outright at certain ages.
Online legal services often limit your choices even further. In most cases, you are offered only two options: an outright distribution at death or partial distributions at predetermined ages.
Both approaches leave your children’s inheritance exposed.
Once assets are transferred into your child’s name, they are no longer protected. If your son accumulated debt during college, creditors could seize his inheritance when it is distributed outright. If your daughter divorces after receiving her inheritance, those funds could be pulled into a divorce settlement. Despite common misconceptions, once inherited assets are in your child’s hands without protection, they are at risk.
And beyond legal threats, there is always the possibility of poor spending decisions. No parent can fully predict how money will affect their child years or decades into the future.
Protection With Access and Flexibility
Lifetime Asset Protection Trusts are designed to address these risks while still giving your children meaningful access to the funds.
Assets held in trust can be invested in stocks, businesses, or real estate, as long as the investments are made in the name of the trust. If your child needs money for education, a home purchase, or medical expenses, the trustee you choose can authorize distributions according to the guidance you provide.
Over time, and with proper education, your child may even step into the role of trustee. This allows them to participate in managing the assets while maintaining the protective structure that preserves the inheritance.
Because these trusts require careful drafting and ongoing guidance, they should never be created without professional support. When done properly, they can also be used to teach your children how to invest, grow wealth, and pass it on responsibly to future generations.
How We Can Help
A Lifetime Asset Protection Trust is one of the most powerful tools available to protect your family’s wealth, but it is only one part of a comprehensive plan.
When you work with our firm, we can guide you through informed, educated, and empowered decisions that protect both your assets and the people you love. Together, we create a Family Wealth Plan designed to work in real life, not just on paper.
If you are ready to start planning in a way that truly serves your family, I invite you to take the next step. If you're ready to begin, the simplest first step is scheduling a complimentary 15-minute Discovery Call by clicking here.





